An Essay · Rare Talks
The most expensive thing a leader can do right now is pretend.
Arjun walks into the meeting with his deck ready.
He has been a Head of Sales for fourteen years. Before that, he was a regional manager. Before that, a senior account executive. He has sat across from this client for four of the six years they have been an account. Today, the account is wobbling, and he knows it. His company has just closed two weak quarters. His MD has asked him to hold this relationship together and, by the way, also close the new logo pitch scheduled three weeks from now. Both rooms, he has been told, matter.
He opens the meeting the way he has opened every meeting of his career. He opens with the numbers. Adoption is up four percent quarter-on-quarter. Ticket resolution time has improved by eleven percent. He is confident. He is prepared. He has done the work. He has the room.
Except he does not have the room.
He walks out certain that it went well. Two weeks later, the account issues an RFP.
We have a session the following week.
Arjun tells me about the meeting. He tells me about the RFP. He tells me what he thinks went wrong — the competitor has more features, the pricing is being squeezed, the market is what the market is. I let him finish. Then I ask him one question.
He does not answer. He looks at me for a long moment. Then he says, honestly, "I have never asked myself that."
Twenty-two years of selling. Thousands of hours in rooms. Not once.
We spend the rest of the session not on his deck, not on his delivery, not on his voice. We spend it on one question. What is the client actually worried about today? Not last year. Today. We spend it on the difference between information-first communication and influence-first communication. He has been an information-first communicator his entire career. The market used to reward it. The market no longer does.
Say true, I tell him. Stay true. The room in front of you is anxious. Your numbers are real. Their problem is also real. Start from their problem, not from your proof.
Three weeks later, Arjun walks into the new logo pitch.
He does not open with adoption rates. He opens with a sentence about what he has heard is keeping the prospective client's team up at night — based on two preparatory calls he asked for. Calls his predecessor would not have asked for. He asks a question early, and he actually waits for the answer. He reads the room. When the CFO shifts in his seat at the mention of timeline risk, Arjun notices, and he bends the pitch toward it instead of continuing down his slides. He uses numbers. But his numbers are in service of the client's problem, not his company's achievement.
He does not perform confidence. The room is already anxious. It does not need a performance.
He wins the account.
Rare Talks exists because Arjun is everywhere.
He is in every services company holding on to wobbling accounts. He is in every sales team pitching into buyers with less budget and more scrutiny. He is in every leadership room where the old script — prepare more, project harder, sound more confident — is producing worse outcomes than it did two years ago.
Say True. Stay True. is not a slogan. In this economy, it is the only thing that works.
I have spent twenty-five years coaching senior leaders across Indian enterprise. What I have learned, in the last eighteen months especially, is that the most expensive thing a leader can do in a high-stakes room right now is pretend. Every other presence coach is still teaching performance. Rare Talks is not.
Names and identifying details have been changed to protect client confidentiality. The pattern is drawn from my work with senior leaders across Indian enterprise.
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If you recognise yourself, or your senior team, in this story, the next step is a conversation. Thirty minutes. Not a pitch.
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